Welcome to the Blog part of the website. This is my attempt to make sense of Kate and I living in France, the lifestyle,the french, my home and animals and anything else that seems amusing to me. Sorry I have a strange sense of humour!! 

The blog is written on a monthly basis with regular  news of my adventures and those of my animals at La Godefrere.  You can now look us up on our new facebook page - La Godefrere.

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October arrives and we have a full cave; visitors arrive for the Michelin experience; the hunt arrives in force and we have a biker cat!

October 1, 2017
We have visitors and are therefore busy eating and drinking, so it will be a fairly brief blog this week.

It is the first of October and autumn marches on. The last of the swallows have now departed and flown South along with their following hobbies. They will be back in late March next year. Earlier in the week we had lots of sun but it has now turned to a rainy weekend. 

Here at La Godefrere we are getting ready for the colder weather and the winter. Our wood store is full of wood and we have had our chimney swept so we are prepared. The plan is of course to not have to light up the fire until November!

To help us we have been taking advantage of the “Fore aux Vins” or wine fair at our local supermarket. We have invested wisely and now have a full to over flowing wine cave with around 100 bottles. That should help us survive the winter and the short days and long nights! Of course, we also have to buy for our family in the UK and have taken extensive orders. Mrs. Parish will be going over on a mercy mission in November with a car full of wine. This, naturally, requires us to test the wine to make sure it is suitable for the family!


The wine cave renewed!

We have some help this weekend with a visit from my former work colleagues Alan and Debi. They have sacrificed themselves with a visit to help us try out the wine and also to come with us to the Michelin 1-star restaurant in Mayenne. It is called L’Eveil des Sens” which translates as the awakening of the senses. The chef is called Nicola Nobis and the standard of food is superb. It is expensive but not compared with Michelin starred restaurants in the UK.

What is great is the whole experience as the waitress service is also immaculate and the food is served with attention to detail and the waitresses explain what is on each plate. They also have the skill to pour exactly the same amount of wine into everyone’s glass. In addition to the ordered menu there are also extras as hors d’ouevres and an amuse bouche to start and petit fours with the coffee. It is a great way to spend a lunchtime couple of hours in proper French style.

We seem to have eaten well here at La Godefrere as well with roast boar on Friday evening and today our guests are cooking coq au vin. And it is a further chance to try out the newly purchased wine. We have also spent our evenings playing games including Articulate. A game where a team member describes a word on a card for their partner to guess. Remarkably Alan and I have somehow won both games. I think we have worked together for so long that we understand how each other thinks. For Mrs. Parish and Debi this is an unfathomable nightmare!

We have also had an ongoing Backgammon competition, which I was, yesterday, leading. Alan’s famous lucky bastard dice throwing will no doubt be a feature of the next couple of days!

Today we were up at a reasonable time as the cat’s demand to be fed at around 7-30am. By the time we had finished our breakfast the peaceful Sunday morning had been interrupted by the sound of the local hunt who were hunting around the maize field next to us. We were alerted by the usual sounds of dogs barking, horns blowing and men shouting. The hunt tried to surround a very large maize field and then sent in the dogs to try to flush out a fox which they try to shoot. There is a gunman stationed about every hundred yards around the field.


The hunt surround our maize field

There are dogs coming in and out of the maize and hunters shouting at their dogs to keep them under control, so they don’t get shot (in theory). The whole thig is a cacophony of noise and chaos and it seems that seldom is a fox dispatched. At least this morning anyway. After about an hour they all went off somewhere else.

We went off to visit Emile and Yvette who had invited us all round for coffee and a taste of Calvados. Another great French experience for Alan and Debi, who are getting the full cultural treatment!

The cats have been suitably spoiled by Auntie Debi and we will need to get back to our normal rigid regime when our visitors have left. For the past week Archie has been fulfilling his dreams of being a biker cat and has spent the time sleeping on a motor bike belonging to some visitors to the gite. I think he has visions of being a hard rocker cat!


Archie the biker cat

We have just arrived back from an afternoon walk and we have resumed the backgammon tournament. As I predicted Alan has regained his lucky bastard status and after my highs of yesterday I have lost two games in a row. It would seem that Debi is faring little better. I get to play her next and try to restore my fortunes. The only answer is to open the wine and so we are having a lovely Kir Royale. Crème cassis with a lovely sparkling Saumur. I have been to the cave and got some nice Medoc to have with the coq au vin and some white, Graves as an alternative.

In France there are always compensations. After my game against Debi which ended in ignominious defeat, I am clearly in need of some comfort. I think I probably need another Kir Royale to make up for it. The tournament resumes tomorrow.

Bon courage
Graham


 

It’s all a bit autumnal; Course des canards in Mayenne; an apple presser, par excellence; and garden art

September 24, 2017

Friday 22nd September saw the official start of Autumn in France. We have noticed that the weather has become very autumnal. The mornings have become quite misty and the temperature a little chilly, at times almost frosty and certainly the grass is very wet. The evenings are closing in and it is getting darker earlier and it is a little colder.

The good side is that we have had some lovely bright, sunny autumn days and we have been tempted to get the shorts out once again. Autumn brings change...

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“Yond Emmeline has a lean and hungry look”; “a cat of a different coat”; the weather is wet so somehow tidying up becomes attractive!

September 17, 2017

The hens are up to something! Every morning this week, just after they have been let out of the hen house, they have been seen in a conspiratorial huddle in the courtyard. Normally they go for likely food options, usually they head for the bird feeders. This morning their huddle became just a bit more sinister as it was misty.

It could be because they are moulting and losing feathers at a rate. Emmeline has not been flying over gates in the past week. So, it may be that idle wings make the dev...

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The girl who strimmed the hornets’ nest; A bird on a wire; August in France and amazing maize

September 10, 2017
Sunday has come around once again and looking back at the week it has been mostly rainy and starting now to get chilly. Proper autumnal and it is time to say goodbye to the tee shirt and shorts that have been de rigeur throughout the summer.

We did have a lively start to the week when we were doing some tidying up work along the nature trail here at La Godefrere. Mrs. Parish is in charge of the strimmer and was togged up with all her gear, including helmet and ear defenders and a face guard re...

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A bit autumnal as we move into September; we have hen saboteurs; a hen surprise; the cats settle in and we meet a slippery customer.+

September 3, 2017

So, we have arrived in September! Where did the summer go? It has turned a bit autumnal here at La Godefrere. After some very hot days the weather has returned to what is a bit more normal. It is now a bit chilly first thing in the morning and the nights are drawing in as it is now starting to get dark at around 9pm. At least one advantage of this is that the chickens go to bed before us! The hens tend to return to the hen house as it gets dark and then Mrs. Parish goes down and shuts them up...

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La Godefrere on tour; forest encounters; Chateaux formidable; meals “gastronomique”; toilets bizarre and I get bitten

August 28, 2017
This past week has been one of anniversaries. It has been 5 years since we arrived to live in France and it is 45 years since Mrs. Parish and I got married. We never imagined in 1972 that one day we would be living in France. So, to celebrate these two anniversaries we decided to have a few days away on a little holiday. Luckily my daughter Jo was here with some friends and they looked after the cats and chickens.

We decided to stay near Chartres which is only a few miles from Paris. This fact...

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Peace and calm return to La Godefrere; Ice cream calva; the amazing cardboard man and sheep sagas

August 20, 2017
All is calm once again here at La Godefrere after a challenging week. This morning Mrs. Parish and I took mother in law back to Rennes airport to catch the plane back to Exeter. She had been with us for a week, although at times it seemed longer! My brother in law John had accompanied her.

Mother in law is going well for a woman of 86 and she can certainly eat and drink! She polished off a full menu of food and even did justice to a full-on French meal at our favourite restaurant, La Marjolain...

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The strange world of firewood including steres and cords; Lord of the flies, the resurrection flies of Mayenne;

August 14, 2017
It is a bit fraught here at La Godefrere as we are experiencing a visit from my dear mother in law. She is now well into her 80’s and can be a disruption to the normal routines here. Hence the blog is a day late as we had to drive down to Rennes airport yesterday to collect her and my brother in law, John.

Like most mother in laws she abhors a vacuum and so tends to fill any space by talking. The 90-minute drive back from the airport was therefore challenging as there was no escape! When we ...

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Louis the bugler; ironing; France is closed in August; we visit the last “poursuite sur terre” and the cats call for a new publicity deal.

August 6, 2017
One of the pleasant things about living in rural France is that you get to meet such interesting people. I think it helps that we are good friends with our neighbours, Giselle and Daniel and with Emile and Yvette. In a rural community, they seem to know everybody and in a lot of cases are distantly related. For example, we have got to know a French famer, Olivier and his wife, Valerie through some English friends. It turns out that Valerie is a distant cousin of Giselle.

Anyway, we were at hom...

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The peace and quiet of rural France; Kamikaze chickens; Bird brains; Grison finds some new friends

July 31, 2017
When setting up the adverts online for our gite, I pondered how to sell a holiday here. It seemed to me that a great selling point was the peace and quiet and slow pace of rural life. So, I made this the main strap line on the website and in adverts with holiday companies.

Last week I went to sit in the garden on a nice sunny morning and thought this is just the day to enjoy that lovely peace and quiet. A half an hour later and I wondered whether I would be charged under the Trades Description...

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About Me


Graham Parish Graham Parish is a former UNISON Trade Union official who retired to France with Kate (a previous self employed gardener and now resident gardener here) to start a new life of wine, cheese, french bread and a vegetable garden on a large rural french farm with holiday gite, and associated animals.

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