Welcome to the Blog part of the website. This is my attempt to make sense of Kate and I living in France, the lifestyle,the french, my home and animals and anything else that seems amusing to me. Sorry I have a strange sense of humour!! 

The blog is written on a monthly basis with regular  news of my adventures and those of my animals at La Godefrere.  You can now look us up on our new facebook page - La Godefrere.

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We go mob handed to the bar and watch France win the World Cup, with alcohol and a little helping hand!

July 18, 2018
This week there has been further disruption to the smooth writing of the blog, from the World cup. On Tuesday we were all set up to watch England play their semi-final and earn the chance to play France is the final. Sadly, it was not to be and England lost to Croatia 2-1 after extra-time. After our disappointment had worn off a little we came to realise that it may have been a good thing. Having spent the past month in the bar at Oisseau supporting the French and getting in with the French supporters it would have been a little difficult turning up and shouting for England.

So, we adjusted our focus and became once again true supporters of France and got ourselves prepared for the final on Sunday and another great evening at the bar. This time there were more of us as we have friends staying with us for the week. It so happens that our local friends Ian and Sarah also had guests and so we all booked into the bar. There being 12 in total on our table.

Our friends from England are good colleagues I used to work with and have been over to see us many times. They are Alan “magic dice” Martin and Debi “Frenchie” Potter. Alan is of course famous for his outrageous luck in throwing dice in the game of backgammon. He is rumoured to have sold his soul to the devil. So far this week he has won two games to my one and it has been a case of those magic dice working for him!

Debi, has no interest in Football but has a great fondness for French culture and wine and was therefore keen to accompany us to the bar to soak up the whole Frenchness of the experience, and to have one or two drinks.

We got to the bar at 4pm for a 5pm kick off, to make sure we got a seat and some beer in ready for the start. As the game was on a Sunday we were a little surprised to see the local priest Father Joseph turn up and bag his seat. It was Father Joseph who got a little carried away in the semi-final and shouted “merde” when France had a shot blocked. Anyway, he clearly had been let off his Sunday duties and was there to bring god’s help to assist the French team.

There were unsurprisingly lots of French people there of all ages and both men and women all made up with the French blue, white and red colours of the French flags. There were also lots of French tricolours and plenty of beer and wine flowing. It was a good game and France scored first and the bar erupted. Then Croatia equalised and the mood turned to depression and lots of moans and groans. Then there was a handball. The whole bar called for a penalty, a clear penalty for France. The video replay was called for and the referee went to look at his TV screen. The French and our group were shouting at the screen and begging for a penalty. I think at this stage Father Joseph must have intervened as the ref suddenly made a decision and awarded a penalty.


The bar awaits the penalty

Antoine Griezmann stepped up to take it and you could hear a pin drop as the tension held the bar in its grip. He scored! The bar went wild. France then dominated the game and went 4-1 up. Being the French there was a little drama to test the nerves as the goalkeeper Lloris gifted a goal to the Croatians. However, we held out and France became World Champions. The bar went wild and the young lads rushed outside to let off fireworks and to jump on top of their transit van and went off down the road, flags waving and horns hooting.


The French score the penalty and Debi is impressed

Time for a coffee and a brandy to calm the nerves and Anne-Sophie brought round sparkling Saumur wine so we could all toast the great victory with shouts of “Vive la France” and “allez les bleus”.  After several more drinks we watched the cup being awarded and we decided to return home. We found out that the bar had stayed open for more celebrations until 5am.


To the victors the spoils!

The next day we all went back to the bar for lunch. We discovered that Father Joseph was there and I reckoned he had been there all night. We had a lovely meal which seemed to go on for most of the afternoon, helped along with another gift of sparkling wine from Anne-Sophie to once again drink to the French success. The French do celebrating their victories and when the cup came back to Paris there were over a million people in the Champs Elysees.

It is now Wednesday, and my first opportunity to get back and finish the blog, which may be a little shorter than usual. Our guests are still here and I am afraid that the backgammon tournament is not going well. That Alan Martin and his magic dice effect. He always seems to have the luck at the right time and the right throw of the dice. I think I may need to have a word with Father Joseph and see if he can have a word in high places so that my luck may change. 

Maybe we should stick to a game called Carcassone. It is a strategy game and there are no dice involved at all. So far, I have won one game and so has Debi. Alan, without the magic dice has yet to register a victory!

It is our guests last day and we are soon off to La Marjolaine for a super lunch at this lovely restaurant. It has duck with cherries on the menu, which is Debi’s favourite so she is very excited and keen to once again sample the French experience.

I will give a full report on the visit, the meal and the backgammon next week. In the meantime, we are off to have an aperitif before the meal.

Bonne semaine
Graham

 

Lazy, hazy days of summer; Football World Cup; the Marquis de Sade and road signs; cats ín charge!

July 11, 2018
These are lazy, hazy days of summer. Mix this with the World Cup and now the start of the Tour de France cycling and any sort of routine or scheduling has gone out of the window and melted. It is now Tuesday and I am just starting the blog. Usually, it would be published by now. But this is France and things happen in their own time. The relaxed French approach suits me fine and the blog will get completed but I’m not sure when. 
After a long day in the sun working in the garden, I am now d...

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The sorry tale of Mother-in-law’s foot; Allez les bleus, speed limits and the strimmer man arrives

July 3, 2018
Sorry for the delay with the blog. Mother in law and football problems intervened!!

It is Tuesday evening and I am enjoying the peace and calm that has at last descended on La Godefrere. Mother-in-law has left the building and is on the road to the ferry port for her return home to Exeter. She has been here for a week although it seems a lot longer and Mrs. Parish is bearing the burden of driving her home and staying for a few days.

My mother-in-law (MiL) is 87 and enjoys her visits here in Fra...

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A new roof; I’m in charge; the problem with plants – the under-gardener’s tale; we go native for football and Petit’s big question

June 25, 2018

A big week here at La Godefrere and we have a new roof. Mark and his gang of symbolist roofers completed the job and put the final slates with artistic skill into position on Wednesday. It looks very nice now we should not suffer the problem of slates becoming dislodged. Now the scaffolding is all down we can get back to some sort of normality. Although we will miss our roofers’ artistic debates and Archie will miss his sandwich van.


The new look La Godefrere

The second big factor is that Mrs...

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Alas poor Sylvia; IT knock on experiences; culture on the roof; we rebuild Ant City and the World Cup kicks off (Allez les bleus!)

June 18, 2018
Another sad week as we lost the last of our three hens. Poor Sylvia fell victim to the same illness as the other two and after a few days of declining health she passed away during the past week. She passed away in the night and it was not necessary “to go and see Giselle!” La Godefrere seems a little empty now with no hens pecking around the garden. I shall particularly miss little Sylvia who would follow me down to the bird feeder tree every morning chatting away and looking for any spi...

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Normality returns; Christabel passes on; orages strike and our IT is down; we have owl and roof news and the Parishs have voted.

June 12, 2018
After the excitement of a guest blogger the La Godefrere blog returns to normal this week. Or at least what passes for normality here. Anyway, first, a big thank you to Jacqui for looking after our animals and minding the house and grounds while Mrs. Parish and I went on holiday. And also, a big thank you for writing last week’s blog, a gripping tale of life’s struggle in rural France, with cat and hen dramas. And of course, the evidence that by the end of the week Jacqui was so overwhelm...

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The Guest Blog, written by our official artist in residence, Jacqui Jessop (with bonus photos) : La Godefrère – 26th May to 2nd June 2018

June 4, 2018
Due to the absence of Mr and Mrs Parish, who have been taking a well-deserved break on the West coast of Brittany, I have been given the almighty but welcome responsibility of writing this week’s blog. I have been staying in the gîte at La Godefrère for a week – for free! – in exchange for looking after the cats and chickens. 

I have known the Parishes for a number of years, living as we do only 10 km or so away, in rural France. Initially, I met Graham and Kate when they became studen...

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RIP Emmeline; is there a rose wine shortage; there is a sandwich incident; we go on holiday and get in a resident artist and karma is established

May 29, 2018
I'm on holiday this week and sadly the wifi in our gite runs very slowly so I can't upload photos. You can however see the pictures on my facebook page "La Godefrere". Sorry!

It has been a sad week here at La Godefrere as we mourn the loss of one of our hens. Poor Emmeline the most bolshie of our three suffragette hens has gone to the great hen house in the sky. She had been ill for the past week, off her food and tottering around the garden and for lengthy periods just sitting and doing nothi...

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We meet goblins and fairies at Mortain; Oz comes to stay; we establish an animal hospital and make hay while the sun shines.

May 21, 2018
Our friends Sandy and Kathy have returned to England after a week with us. As I reported last week we have a tradition of tidying up half empty whisky bottles (whisky bottles are always half empty and never half full!). We had a good week of tidying and the week was full of sunny weather so we managed to get out and do some sight-seeing. For the first time we visited the town of Mortain in Normandy, about half an hour away from us.


Sandy and Kathy with Mrs, Parish in our garden

We had been attr...

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Whisky is tidied; the Ants have been found; more sheep but less wool; we go al fresco and the hens stop laying

May 15, 2018

Our friends Sandy and Kathy have arrived and so there is much eating and drinking going on and a certain amount of disruption to the strict timescales we work to here at La Godefrere. Sandy has been a leading light in efforts to tidy up my whisky, while bringing in full bottles to be prepared for future tidying. It is important to maintain a balance and cyclical approach or run the risk of running out of whisky. So far, we have managed to tidy up 3 bottles which have now to be smuggled out to...

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About Me


Graham Parish Graham Parish is a former UNISON Trade Union official who retired to France with Kate (a previous self employed gardener and now resident gardener here) to start a new life of wine, cheese, french bread and a vegetable garden on a large rural french farm with holiday gite, and associated animals.

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